Recently, a friend of mine suggested I put the ‘softener’ in my daughter’s hair to eliminate the fuzzies and allow her to wear her hair down without getting too tangled. She said that it isn’t a relaxer or even a lot of chemicals, and is perfect for my daughter because it is basically a deep conditioner. I checked it out at the beauty supply and the ‘treatment’ lasts for 12 weeks, and then needs to be touched up. Doesn’t that mean that her hair won’t actually be natural anymore if the product alters it’s original state? Or is it truly a deep conditioning product that would benefit us?